挑一件最暖的记忆，留给自己

前两天还刷到个视频：某城市的房东阿姨，因为父母相继离世，子女把老宅清空，不过几个小时，连墙上的老照片都撤下了，一切像是没发生过似的。评论区里也有人唏嘘，说现在年轻人都讲究效率，习惯“断舍离”，但转头又有人反复念叨，收拾父母遗物的时候，忍不住掉了好几次眼泪……

到底是我们变冷漠了，还是生活推着我们，不得不变得“理智”？

我妈跟我谈过这个，她说其实不是不伤心，也不是不在乎，只是一是家里空间有限，二是大家都很忙，拖着不处理，内心其实更难受。她建议我将来，这种情况，可以挑一两件最有意义的留下，别的该处理就处理。

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http://bi-system-layout-test.itianding.com/article.ashx/artinfo/73744.html确实，大部分家庭处理老人遗物时，表面看起来“果断”，其实每扔一样东西，心里都在疼。可生存压住了怀念，还得生活，还得继续走下去。

其实，我明白年轻人的无奈。快节奏的生活让人难有时间深情怀旧，即便再软心肠，也可能被眼前的现实推着往前走。你想，老一辈的布鞋、旧碗、茶壶，总不能全留个几十年吧。可每当我看到那些快递般“清空”的动作，总忍不住想，时代是不是变“凉”了点？

不过你说真要完全冷了心，也未必。那天我看到朋友家收拾完后，她特意选了一条老人用得最久的围巾留着，说冬天戴上，像奶奶还在身边。其实我们能做的，就是用心安顿好记忆，把最珍贵的那点亲情，好好保存在自己的心底。