恰好的距离，是维系亲情最长情的告白

每个人的内心深处，都藏着一片无人触及的隐秘花园。父母有他们的执拗，子女有自己的倔强，夫妻之间更有无法彻底说清的那些委屈和期望。太多的时候，我们总想给家人全部的自己，总企图用付出换取被爱，殊不知——越是倾尽所有，感情反倒容易失衡。

尝试留一点余地吧。心理学上说，当你习惯性去满足亲人五个请求中的四个，只留下那一件小事做不了，对方反而会对你的在乎更为珍惜。毕竟，完美和无条件，并不能让依赖变成幸福，只会让关心成为负担。

就像老树下摇曳的灯火，不能燃成白昼，正因有黑夜的衬托才更温柔。如果总是全身心地迎合与付出，容易让彼此窒息；如果能学会适当的拒绝与适度的保留，那份不被满足的小缺口，就是亲情之间能呼吸的空间。

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http://m.puregreen.com.cn/wbxnews/81023.htm生活在琐碎间隐忍流转。有时候，我们努力做好一百分，但亲人却不领情，这并不是你不够好，而是在彼此太近的距离里，需要一点松弛的力。你不用每餐都等待父母归家，不用事事为孩子铺平道路，不用对伴侣的期待悉数应允。满足“1/5”——留点遗憾，也是一种爱的方式。

古人云：“水满则溢，月盈则亏。”家庭的和谐美丽，在于留白。恰好的距离，是维系亲情最长情的告白。试着静下心来，多聆听少辩解，多陪伴少干涉，允许对方偶尔自私，也宽容自己适度懒惰。亲人不是要你成为万能的太阳，只希望你愿意在身旁发出属于自己的光。