赛琳娜大婚，“救命恩人”缺席？捐肾闺蜜回应引热议：她现在是亿万富翁了...

前段时间，赛琳娜·戈麦斯（Selena Gomez）与制作人男友本尼·布兰科（Benny Blanco）在加州举行了一场浪漫婚礼，星光熠熠，好友“霉霉”泰勒·斯威夫特、艾德·希兰等一众圈中挚友悉数到场，星光熠熠。

不过，粉丝的眼睛一向犀利——他们很快发现，这场盛大的婚礼上，曾为赛琳娜捐肾的挚友，美国女演员弗朗西娅·莱莎（Francia Raisa）并未现身，也不在嘉宾名单中。当天，莱莎在个人社交平台上发布了一个跳舞视频，更是被作为她没有出席婚礼的证据。

这个细节瞬间引发热议，不少网友猜测：两人曾经轰动一时的姐妹情，是否真的“凉了”？

'So you were not invited to the wedding?' theorized one user.

有网友猜测道：“所以你是没被邀请去婚礼吗？”

'Not what I'd be expecting you to do be doing on September 27, 2025,' wrote another.

另一位写道：“这可不是我想象中你会在2025年9月27日做的事。”

'This is the woman who saved the life of her best friend but in return she wasn't invited in her best friend's happiest day,' scathed someone else. 。”

还有人讽刺道：“她可是救过闺蜜一命的人，结果闺蜜结婚这天，她却连宾客名单都没上。”

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Raisa and Gomez first crossed paths a decade ago when they were young stars on Secret Life of the American Teenager and Wizards of Waverly Place, respectively.

弗朗西娅·莱莎和赛琳娜·戈麦斯初识于十多年前，当时她们还都是初出茅庐的青春偶像，分别出演了《青春密语》与《少年魔法师》。

Raisa donated akidneyto Gomez in 2017 after the Spring Breakers star was diagnosed withlupus.

2017年，赛琳娜·戈麦斯因患上红斑狼疮，需要进行肾脏移植手术，弗朗西娅·莱莎决定捐出自己的肾脏，帮助赛琳娜渡过难关。

Sufferers of the disease have hyperactiveimmune systemsthat can attack their healthy tissues and organs, .
红斑狼疮是一种自身免疫性疾病，患者的免疫系统会异常活跃，错误地攻击身体健康的组织和器官。

Raisa recalled the warning that a social worker gave her before the surgery.'It’s going to be hard, the recipient is going to glow and she’s going to recover a lot faster than the donor because she’s getting something she needs and you are losing something you don’t need to lose. It’s going to be hard,' she recalled being told in an interview with SELF.

莱莎回忆起手术前一位社工对她的告诫："这会非常艰难，接受者将容光焕发，她的恢复速度会远快于捐赠者——因为她获得了急需的东西，而你却失去了本不必失去的东西。整个过程将会非常艰难。"她在接受《悦己》杂志采访时这样回忆道。

'And it was hard,' Raisa continued, adding, 'Selena and I both went through a depression.'Raisa also raised her shirt and lowered her pants to reveal a mark resembling a 'C-section' scar, as well as smaller scars higher on her stomach.

事实也确实如此，"莱莎继续说道，并补充说，"赛琳娜和我都经历了抑郁期。"她还撩起上衣，褪下裤腰，展示了一道类似"剖腹产"的疤痕，以及腹部上方的几处较小疤痕。

In the same interview, Raisa mentioned that it was Gomez who informed her that she was a match for the kidney donation, rather than doctors, which led some fans to worry that she may have felt pressured to agree to the donation.

在同一访谈中，莱莎透露当初是赛琳娜而不是医生告诉她“肾源匹配成功”的消息。这一细节让部分粉丝担心，莱莎或许是在某种心理压力下才同意捐献。

In 2022, the pair were rumored to be feuding after Gomez said in a Rolling Stone interview that 'My only friend in the industry really is Taylor [Swift], so I remember feeling like I didn’t belong.'

2022年，当赛琳娜接受《滚石》专访时表示"娱乐圈里我真正的朋友只有泰勒·斯威夫特，那种格格不入的感觉至今记忆犹新"。

'Interesting,' Raisa wrote in a since-deleted comment on a post about the quotation. In response to Raisa's comment, Gomez replied, 'Sorry I didn't mention every person I know.'

莱莎随即在某条相关内容下留言"有意思啊"（该评论现已删除），引发两人不和的传闻。对此赛琳娜曾回应："很抱歉没能提及我认识的每一个人。"

中间还有一个小插曲，有媒体报道赛琳娜术后疑似开始喝酒抽烟，完全不珍惜她的新肾脏，让莱莎很不满。2023年，莱莎承认两人关系疏远，但仍然是朋友。

如今，赛琳娜大婚，莱莎没有出现在嘉宾名单中，再次引发了大众对两人关系的猜测。不过这一次，莱莎亲自出来回应了……

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“I know she’s getting married,” Francia told Univision’s Primer Impacto in a clip shared to Instagram ahead of thenuptials, “and I’m very happy for her.”

莱莎在接受Univision节目《Primer Impacto》采访时说道：“我知道她要结婚了，真心为她感到高兴”，该片段在赛琳娜婚礼前被分享在Instagram上。

“Look—she has a life,” Francia explained. “And she is already a billionaire, and I am grateful that I could do that for her.”

"你看，她现在有自己的生活，"莱莎接着解释说，"而且她现在已经是亿万富翁了，我很感激自己能为她做那些事。”

She added, "From the beginning, the doctors told me it’s a donation. If you’re going to donate a dollar to St. Jude or somewhere else, you’re not going to call to say, ‘Hey, what are you doing with my dollar?’ It’s a donation and it’s something nice that I was able to do. I am grateful that I am alive, and I can say that I have saved a life."

她补充道：“一开始医生就告诉我，这是一次捐赠。如果你捐一美元给圣犹达医院或其他地方，你不会打电话去问：‘嘿，我那一美元你拿去干什么了？’ 捐赠就是捐赠——这是一件我能做到的善事。我很感激自己现在还活着，也能骄傲地说，我救过一个人的命。”

至于之前传言，莱莎因为赛琳娜抽烟而很生气，甚至找她对峙，莱莎也否认了这件事情。

"When that rumor came out that I had gotten angry or something like that because [Selena] was smoking, I wasn’t aware of those rumors."

“关于此前传出我因赛琳娜吸烟而生气的传闻，我本人当时并不知情。”

She added, "What you’re asking me are rumors. No one knows what’s going on, and neither she nor I are talking about it. One day, maybe we will address it."

她继续说道：“你问我的这些都是谣言。没人知道到底发生了什么，我和她也都没有公开谈过。也许将来有一天，我们会回应这一切。”

从当年一起经历生死，到后来渐行渐远，再到如今社交媒体上客气体面的祝福与回应，莱莎依然没有出现在赛琳娜的婚礼上。看到这里，还是忍不住有点唏嘘。

时间在走，人也在变。正如莱莎自己说的那句话：“People grow, relationships change”。有时候，曾经的生死之交，也会慢慢变成生活中的过客。不是不再重要了，只是人生这场长途旅行里，同行的路，总有分岔的那一刻。

重点词汇速记

kidney/ˈkɪdni/ n. 肾脏
lupus/ˈluːpəs/ n. 红斑狼疮
immune system/ɪˈmjuːn ˌsɪstəm/ n. 免疫系统
C-section/ˈsi ˌsekʃən/ n. 剖腹产
nuptial/ˈnʌpʃəl/ adj. 婚礼的；婚姻的

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