【母亲节】老妈我想对你说

《The Gentleness of Mother》

《母亲的温柔》

A gentle breeze, your smile upon my face,

春风拂面，是你的笑容，

Summer rain, your care so soft and mild,

夏雨绵绵，是你的关怀，

Autumn moon, your guidance bright and clear,

秋月皎洁，是你的指引，

Winter snow, your strength that never fears.

冬雪皑皑，是你的坚强。

You are the harbor, forever warm and true,

你是家的港湾，永远温暖，

I am the hope you planted, growing strong.

我是你种下的希望，努力绽放。

Through storms and calm, you lead the way,

无论风雨兼程，你总是在前方，

Love like the stars, forever in my heart.

爱如星河，永不熄灭，长留心上。

——2024.05.12 02.22

《Sonnet to My Mother》

——by George Barker

Most near, most dear, most loved, and most far,

Under the huge window where I often found her

Sitting as huge as Asia, seismic with laughter,

Gin and chicken helpless in her Irish hand,

Irresistible as Rabelais but most tender for

The lame dogs and hurt birds that surround her,—

She is a procession no one can follow after

But be like a little dog following a brass band.

She will not glance up at the bomber or condescend

To drop her gin and scuttle to a cellar,

But lean on the mahogany table like a mountain

Whom only faith can move, and so I send

O all her faith and all my love to tell her

That she will move from mourning into morning.

As a son in the contemporary world, the occasion of Mother's Day brings with it a mix of gratitude and complexity. While it's a day to celebrate the boundless love and sacrifice of mothers, it's also a time when the evolving dynamics of modern life cannot be ignored.

One of the foremost challenges is the issue of time. Many of us find ourselves caught in the whirlwind of career ambitions, technological distractions, and the constant pursuit of personal goals. This often leads to a significant reduction in the quality and quantity of time we spend with our mothers. Unlike the past where families frequently shared meals and long conversations, today’s interactions are often limited to quick calls or text messages.

Another phenomenon is the geographical distance that separates many families. In pursuit of education and career opportunities, children often move away from their hometowns, leaving mothers to face the 'empty nest syndrome'. This physical distance can strain the emotional bond, making mothers feel isolated or neglected just when they might be grappling with aging and its associated challenges.

Furthermore, the role reversal is a critical aspect that emerges as mothers age. Children, especially sons who traditionally might not have been as involved in caregiving, find themselves in positions where they must provide for and sometimes make decisions for their aging parents. This shift can be uncomfortable and stressful for both parties, as it alters the long-standing dynamics of the parent-child relationship.

Financial dependence is also a topic that cannot be overlooked. In an era of economic uncertainty, many young adults continue to rely on their parents financially, which can lead to feelings of guilt and inadequacy. Conversely, some mothers may become financially dependent on their children, which can also alter the power dynamics within the relationship, sometimes leading to conflict and resentment.

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Topic:Mother-Child Relationships

Adult Question Time

作者：Harry 审稿：

What role do you play in caregiving for your aging mother?

你在照顾年迈母亲方面扮演什么角色？

How has technology affected your communication with your mother?

技术如何影响了你与母亲的沟通？

Do you think living far from home has changed your relationship with your mother? How?

你认为远离家乡是否改变了你与母亲的关系？如何改变？

How do you cope with the guilt of not spending enough time with your mother?

你如何应对没有足够时间陪伴母亲的内疚感？

How do you resolve conflicts with your mother?

你如何解决与母亲之间的冲突？

What do you think is the ideal way to celebrate Mother’s Day?

你认为庆祝母亲节的理想方式是什么？

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