不管你多大，有心动就有青春

每个人都有自己的春天。即使年岁悄悄爬上头顶的银发，心中的那点火花从不熄灭。79岁的刘奶奶，在小区广场跳舞的时候，笑着说——“我依然会对男性动心，这不是羞耻，是本能呀！”她的坦然，不仅让一旁的邻居们抿嘴偷乐，还让许多中年朋友深受启发。

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http://m.tzwlkj.net/pictures/176778.shtml自然界里的万事万物都遵循自己的规律。喜欢谁、欣赏谁，也是人的天性。有些美好不分年龄，心动就是最好的证明，每个人都值得被疼爱，哪怕白发苍苍、满脸皱纹。

中年之后，我们习惯隐藏情感，把梦想锁进抽屉，把悸动关进心底。可是，如果生活只剩下柴米油盐，何来的激情？学会欣赏别人，也是一种自我接纳。你可以成为温柔的妈妈、可靠的丈夫，但别忘了，你也是那个期待惊喜的小孩。

有的人过了四十，总觉得爱情和自己没关系了。其实，真正热爱生活的人，总愿意给心灵开扇窗。也许不是一定要轰轰烈烈谈恋爱，但偶尔对别人心动，感受到被关注，被欣赏，那份年轻的心气儿还在。这份本能没什么可避讳的，只会让人更懂生活。

别嘲笑年迈的心动。奶奶说，我们的身体可能会老去，灵魂永远年轻。她跟我们讲，七十九岁的年纪，可以春游，跳广场舞，种花、看书；也可以对舞伴动心，对陌生老爷爷笑一笑。只要自己开心，不伤害别人，没有什么不能被允许。

世界纷纷扰扰，每个人都在寻找意义。勇敢表达情感，也是活成自己的重要一课。也许你一直觉得，人生到了某个阶段，就该按部就班。其实，给心留一些空白，让情感自由流淌，会发现每天都是彩色的。

如果你已经五十了，还能冬天吃上一口热汤、看到喜欢的花开，甚至为身边某个人多笑两下，无需自责，不用觉得胆怯。人生短暂，亏待自己才是真的委屈。不管你多大，有心动就有青春。

我们常说“少年心气”，其实，那也是一种敢于热爱的勇气。年纪能增长，爱与动心不会过期。像刘奶奶一样，坦然做自己，不怕别人眼光，把每一天都活成喜欢的样子。

所以，那些依然愿意对三两句玩笑感动，对一句关心欢喜的人，值得热烈拥抱自己。不管多大，拥有动心的能力，就是最强大的内驱力。哪怕七十九，依然值得灼灼盛放！