夸人只会用油腻的beautiful？又土又不真诚！

如果有男生对我说

You are so beautiful !

我可能只会赏他两个字

油 腻！

你们肯定会说，这话有什么问题

首先我觉得beautiful真的很土味

就好像有人对你说：姑娘，你真美

我真的不会被撩到，反而满脸嫌弃

而且，夸人还夸得这么肤浅

难道除了好看我就没有其他特质吗

如果你在外国这样撩那边的小姐姐

海燕你可长点心！除非你长得帅

否则你迎来的可能是个大耳巴子

为什么？ 还不是因为文化差异的原因

我们新来的外教 Dillon 和卡拉就跟我们

讲解了搭讪外国小姐姐的正确打开方式

赶快听节目，立即告别单身狗~

笔记：

夸赞时要注意：

1.

Try to compliment a talent or gift that has been acquired by the women and not something she is born with. I.E. Her intelligence or the choice of clothes she is wearing.

尽量夸赞异性的能力，才艺，而不要夸赞那些生来就有的外貌气质。比如，可以夸她的才能和穿着。

2.

Try not to make comments about women’s body or physical appearance. This includes waist size, complexion, and/or weight.

尽量不要去夸赞外貌。包括腰围，肤色，体重，都要避免。

正确夸赞示例： Some examples of appropriate compliments are as follows:

A) That is an gorgeous dress Jennifer, where did you buy it?

你这裙子真好看Jennifer, 你在哪买的啊？

B) I really like your new glasses Alice, they really accentuate your eyes.

我真喜欢你的新眼镜Alice，把你的眼睛衬得更好看了。

C) Have you recently had a haircut? I like it very much.

你最近剪头发了吗？我喜欢你的新发型。

对话示例：

Dillon: Hi Cara, are those new shoes you’re wearing? They seem very comfortable.

卡拉，你穿新鞋啦？看起来很舒服诶。

Cara: Yes, thanks for noticing! I bought them last weekend and decided to break them out today.

是啊，谢谢你注意到啊！我上周末买的，今天决定要拿出来穿！

Dillon: I think they were a good choice to match with that skirt you wore today.

我觉得你挑的很好诶，很配你今天穿的裙子。

Cara: I know right, that is exactly what I was thinking.

我知道，我有意搭的。

Dillon: Well, you look absolutely stunning today! Breathtaking even.

你今天看起来真是美呆了！

Cara: Thank you very much, I like the jacket you are wearing today, you look quite dashing and debonair.

谢谢你啦。你今天穿的夹克我很喜欢啊，你看起来很帅很精神。

Dillon: Thank you. I guess today we are just two stunning peeps today.

谢谢。我们俩今天就是，俊男美女！

Cara: haha yea!

哈哈哈哈是的！

其中用到的夸人好看的词：

stunning 极有魅力的, 令人震惊的

breathtaking 好看得使人透不过气来的

dashing 时髦的，打扮漂亮的

debonair（通常指男人）风流倜傥的，温文尔雅的，衣着入时的

哦哟~ Dillon 真的是有点可爱了

说了这么多，但我最喜欢被人夸的

其实是性格，谁不喜欢性格好的女生呢

而且夸人性格会让对方

觉得你在认真地欣赏她

所以果冻一定要把夸性格的词汇

也安利几个给你们~

人好、善良的

nice / kind / pleasant

脾气好、温厚的

good-natured

独立的、勇敢的

independent / courageous

爱动脑筋的

have an inquiring mind

稳健的、可靠的

temperate / dependable

以后就用这些词多夸夸我吧hh

多夸一个人，会越来越优秀哦

顺便问下你们有被搭讪过吗

说实话我还是挺期待的~

（这是暗示你们懂的吧...）