把期待收回来，把注意力放回自己身上

没有背叛，没有争吵，没有狗血剧情，可我们的家，安静得像一座空城。

明明同住一个屋檐下，却活得像合租室友。吃饭时各自刷手机，睡前没有一句晚安，难过时得不到一句安慰，开心时没人愿意分享。你说的话，他只回“嗯、哦、随便”；你想好好沟通，他要么沉默，要么回避，把你的热情一点点冻僵。

他没有对不起谁，也没有犯原则性的错，可他用最温柔的冷漠，把婚姻熬成了一潭死水。比起轰轰烈烈的决裂，这种无声的消耗，更让人绝望。你守着一个完整的家，心里却空无一人，连委屈都找不到出口。

多少女人，在这样的婚姻里慢慢沉默。不是原谅了，而是失望攒够了；不是不闹了，而是知道闹也没用。曾经满心欢喜想和他过一生，后来才明白，有些陪伴，只是名义上的相守。

但日子总要继续，心不能一直困在空城里。不必苦苦追问他为什么不爱了、不关心了，更不要自我消耗、自我怀疑。婚姻只是人生的一部分，不是全部。

把期待收回来，把注意力放回自己身上。去打扮、去赚钱、去社交、去热爱生活，把一个人的日子，过得热气腾腾。你会发现，当你不再围着他转，当你内心丰盈，这座空城，也能被你自己点亮。

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婚姻最好的状态，是有人同行很好，无人同行，我亦能独自芬芳。不必在空城里等一个不会来的人，你自己，就是自己的归宿。