爱永远是炽热的，大大方方热热烈烈的

你有没有发现？越长大，好像越习惯把自己的情感藏起来，怕被看穿，怕被笑话。其实这些不过是“中年人的体面”，但爱情和幸福，向来只偏爱那些敢于伸手的人。严肃不等于孤独，努力拼搏，不代表告别浪漫，中年人的“燃”，其实也能很精彩。

热爱生活，并不会过时。每天细碎的琐事可以磨平脾气，却永远交不走我们对美好的渴望。愿意为家人准备一桌好饭，依然会因为一句温柔的问候，心头小鹿乱撞。这些感觉，是活着的重要意义。无论见过多少风雨，爱从来都是让人咬紧牙关之后最想坚守的东西。

为什么要大大方方地去爱？因为人这一生，说长不长，说短不短。羞于表达，会错失很多瞬间。勇敢一点，敢说喜欢，敢表达关心，敢吵架后和解，敢在平淡的日子里点亮仪式感。这些看似稀松平常，其实都是炽热的表现。有人说，真挚的爱是“不卑不亢，http://www.bjtxzlh.com/dj/ds.ccc?/p/Products/681527.html
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自信自立”。用阳光的态度去爱人，日子也会自带光芒。别觉得：年龄大了，就不用动心、不用张扬。恰恰相反，成熟的你，已经会控制情绪，更知道珍惜陪伴。当你收起腼腆，把爱放心上挂出来，那个人一定会懂你，也想紧紧拥抱你。信任和包容，是成年人才懂得价值。热烈一点，大胆一点，让爱自由呼吸。而那些笑你太主动的人，往往都羡慕你的勇气。

别为自己“泼冷水”。养成习惯：欣赏最真实的自己。生活的主角本来就是你，无需扮演谁的配角。坦率表达情感，也许不完美，但足够有力量。能够全力以赴，那才叫生命无悔。愿意守护、付出、欣赏，自己的世界就会不断升温。

炽热的爱，是成年人的底气。它不再需要讨好谁，不需要遮掩什么。愿你有一颗热烈坦荡的心，敢于欢笑，敢于流泪。愿你依然相信幸福，依然渴望浪漫。在成熟的年纪，依然可以活成自己喜欢的样子。

人到中年，情感早已不再是青春戏码。但说真的，谁又不希望自己还能拥有一份炽热、坦荡的爱？不是温吞的小心翼翼，也不是缩手缩脚的惶恐失措。真正的爱，就该像盛夏的太阳，明亮，敞亮，热烈而不尴尬。

大大方方去爱，热热烈烈生活。就让我们做最酷的自己，用行动把所有美好，牢牢抓在手心中。任时光慢慢流逝，你我依旧真实跳动的，是那颗一直相信爱的心。不负韶华，勇敢滚烫，这才配得上我们每一天的认真生活！