九言 | 人无贪念便有馈赠，满心期待必有所失。

人总要沉下心来， 过一段宁静而自省的日子， 整理自己， 沉淀再沉淀， 然后成为一个温柔而强大的人。

People always need to calm down, live a peaceful and self reflective life, organize themselves, settle and settle again, and then become a gentle and powerful person.

幸福是什么，幸福就是，人到中年有一个好身体，一个坏的记性，简单点，糊涂点，开心一点，别说以前，别想也许，别谈如果。

What is happiness? Happiness is having a good body, a bad memory, simplicity, confusion, and happiness in middle age. Don't talk about the past, don't think about possibility, and don't talk about what if.

不冷战，不任性，多沟通，用舒服的方式喜欢和爱，知道承担，懂得分享，一起进步。

Don't be cold hearted, don't be stubborn, communicate more, like and love in a comfortable way, know how to take responsibility, know how to share, and progress together.

人无贪念便有馈赠，满心期待必有所失。

Without greed, there is a gift, but with full expectations, there is always a loss.

我从未对梦想会成真抱持确信无疑的态度，但胸怀理想，并享受其乐趣，就是一件好事，千万不要过于急切。

I have never held a certain attitude that my dreams will come true, but it is a good thing to have ideals and enjoy their joy. Don't be too eager.

奇怪的是，平静下来的人，才能获得机缘对自己进行改变，而改变，又带给人更深层的平静。人生对于一切机缘的转化，都归于静化。

Strangely, only those who calm down can have the opportunity to change themselves, and change brings deeper peace to people. All opportunities in life are transformed into stillness.

你也不要说自己明天怎么样、后天怎么样，把眼前的事情做好就不错了。

Don't talk about how you will be tomorrow or the day after tomorrow. Just do the things in front of you well.

你无法取悦每一个人，如果你试着取悦每一个人，将会失去自己。

You cannot please everyone, if you try to please everyone, you will lose yourself.

爱不占有也不被占有，爱在爱中满足。

Love neither possesses nor is possessed, love is satisfied in love.