活动 | 李松蔚x童书妈妈三川玲：爱与期待的拉锯——怎样和孩子找到同频的未来？

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时间：2025年2月15日，10:00-12:00

地点：启明星学校D+剧院 北京市朝阳区顺白路2号

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先到先得！

父母对孩子都有期待，或多或少。

合理的期待，是孩子面向未来的方向和锚点；

表达期待的方法合适，能撬动他们的小宇宙！

两代人对世界的看法毕竟不同步，

父母沟通的方式要是再过于“直白”，

孩子感受到的，就是压力。

于是，他们的反应常常是“我偏不”——

打游戏，看动漫，收集各种周边、手办，选择在父母看来没有什么前景的学科、专业，或者茫然无措，两手一摊——

作为“社会创新影响力杰出人士讲座” 嘉宾，2月15日，启明星学校D+剧院，李松蔚老师将对话知名教育博主、启明星家长童书妈妈三川玲作为从家庭教育咨询案例、对全球教育的广泛观察出发，探讨父母和孩子之间怎样进行柔和的沟通，一次解开爱与期待的矛盾！

对话嘉宾

李松蔚

临床心理学博士，现为自由执业心理咨询师，家庭治疗师；知乎心理学领域高赞答主，得到App《心理学通识》、《跟李松蔚学心理咨询》主理人，著有《心理学讲义》、《5%的改变》等书，《再见爱人》、《我家那小子》、《荒野会谈》等节目常驻嘉宾；中国心理学会注册心理师，中国心理卫生协会婚姻家庭心理健康促进专业委员会委员，中德儿童与青少年家庭治疗连续培训项目中方教师。

三川玲

启明星学校家长、教育出版人、童书评论人、幸福流写作创始人，TEDkids 智库专家、中国营地联盟理事，亲自下场看了上万孩子作文的阅读写作教育者，致力于用顺应天性的阅读法与写作法让更多人爱上阅读，享受写作。出版有《通往幸福的教育》、《孩子天生爱写作》 （即将出版）、儿童写作音频课《顺应孩子天性的写作课》。

对话内容

• 父母眼中“对的路”，孩子为什么不愿意走？

• 有效家庭沟通的“隐藏密码”是什么？

• 孩子究竟在想什么，怎样识别他们真实的兴趣？

• 如何引导孩子对自己负责，来适应新的社会成长环境？

适合人群

• 对孩子未来感到迷茫、焦虑的父母

• 不知道怎样平和沟通的爸爸妈妈

• 有万般经验，却不知道怎样赋能孩子的家长

活动形式

•主题对谈：两位大咖深度解析家庭矛盾背后的心理逻辑

•案例分享：真实家庭故事的剖析与共鸣

•互动提问：为你的具体问题提供现场解答

为什么不能错过？

家庭教育不是你输我赢的战场，而是连接两代人的桥梁。和家庭教育领航者一起，重新理解父母与孩子间的爱与期待，为家庭沟通找到全新方向！

父母的觉知，是孩子成长的起点。我们欢迎您来，支持孩子一生只有一次的成长！

Time and Location

Time: February 15, 2025, 10:00-12:00 am
Venue: D+ Theater, Daystar Academy, No.2, Shunbai Road, Chaoyang District (with online live streaming)

• Language: This even will be conducted in Chinese only.

Limited seats for non-Daystar family

Please register ASAP!

Parents all have expectations for their children, to a greater or lesser degree.
Reasonable expectations serve as a direction and anchor for a child’s future;
Expressing expectations in an appropriate way can positively impact their universe!

The worldviews of two generations are not necessarily in sync.
If parents express their expectations too "bluntly",
Their child might feel pressure.

So their response may be, "I won't do it."
Instead, they play games, watch animations, collect various figurines, choose subjects and majors that seem to have no future in their parents' eyes, or feel aimless and shrug their shoulders.

As "Inno-Impact Distinguished Speaker", on February 15, at Daystar’s D+ Theater, Mr. Li Songwei will have a dialogue with the renowned education blogger and Daystar parent, Ms. San Chuan Ling. Drawing from family education consulting cases and their broad observations of global education, they will discuss how parents and children can engage in gentle communication to resolve the contradictions between love and expectations!

Speaker

Li Songwei

Doctoral degree in clinical psychology, currently a freelance psychologist and family therapist. High-scoring Zhihu psychology expert, host of the Psychology Basics and Learn Psychology Counseling with Li Songwei programs on the app Dedao, author of the books Psychology Lectures and 5% Change, and a frequent guest on programs like Goodbye My Love, That Kid of Mine, and Wilderness Talk. Registered psychologist of the Chinese Psychological Society, member of the Marriage and Family Mental Health Promotion Professional Committee of the Chinese Mental Health Association, Chinese teacher in the China-Germany Children and Adolescent Family Therapy Training Program.

San Chuan Ling

Education publisher, children's book critic, founder of the Happiness Flow writing project, TEDkids think tank expert, member of the China Camp Union, a reading and writing education practitioner who has personally read over tens of thousands of children's compositions, committed to using reading and writing methods that align with children's natural tendencies to help more people fall in love with reading and enjoy writing. Published works include Education Towards Happiness, Children Naturally Love Writing (to be published soon), and the children's writing audio course, A Writing Course That Aligns with Children's Nature.

Discussion Topics

• Why don't children want to take the "right path" in the eyes of parents?

• What is the "hidden code" for effective family communication?
• What are children really thinking, and how to identify their true interests?
• How to guide children to be responsible for themselves and adapt to the new social growth environment?

Target Audience

• Parents who feel confused and anxious about their children's future

• Parents who don't know how to communicate calmly
• Parents with abundant experience but don't know how to empower their children

Event Format

• Topic dialogue: The experts will share in-depth analysis of the psychological logic behind family contradictions.
• Case sharing: Analysis and significance of real family stories.
• Interactive Q&A: On-site answers to your specific questions.