I’m not sure who asked the question to begin with (as though you needed a reason!)， but here is the full list of 237 reasons that people said why they have sex:
1. I was ‘‘in the heat of the moment.’’
2. It just happened。
3. I was bored。
4. It just seemed like ‘‘the thing to do.’’
5. Someone dared me。
6. I desired emotional closeness “(i.e.,” intimacy)。
7. I wanted to feel closer to God。
8. I wanted to gain acceptance from my friends。
9. It’s “exciting,” adventurous。
10. I wanted to make up after a fight。
11. I wanted to get rid of aggression。
12. I was under the influence of drugs。
13. I wanted to have something to tell my friends。
14. I wanted to express my love for the person。
15. I wanted to experience the physical pleasure。
16. I wanted to show my affection to the person。
17. I felt like I owed it to the person。
18. I was attracted to the person。
19. I was sexually aroused and wanted the release。
20. My friends were having sex and I wanted to fit in。
21. It feels good。
22. My partner kept insisting。
23. The person was famous and I wanted to be able to say I had sex with him/her。
24. I was physically forced to。
25. I was verbally coerced into it。
26. I wanted the person to love me。
27. I wanted to have a child。
28. I wanted to make someone else jealous。
29. I wanted to have more sex than my friends。
30. I was married and you’re supposed to。
31. I was tired of being a virgin。
32. I was ‘‘horny.’’
33. I wanted to feel loved。
34. I was feeling lonely。
35. Everyone else was having sex。
36. I wanted the attention。
37. It was easier to ‘‘go all the way’’ than to stop。
38. I wanted to ensure the relationship was ‘‘committed.’’
39. I was competing with someone else to ‘‘get the person.’’
40. I wanted to ‘‘gain control’’ of the person。
41. I was curious about what the person was like in bed。
42. I was curious about sex。
43. I wanted to feel attractive。
44. I wanted to please my partner。
45. I wanted to display submission。
46. I wanted to release anxiety/stress。
47. I didn’t know how to say ‘‘no.’’
48. I felt like it was my duty。
49. I wanted to end the relationship。
50 My friends pressured me into it。
51. I wanted the adventure/excitement。
52. I wanted the experience。
53. I felt obligated to。
54. It’s fun。
55. I wanted to get even with someone “(i.e.,” get revenge)。
56. I wanted to be popular。
57. It would get me gifts。
58. I wanted to act out a fantasy。
59. I hadn’t had sex for a while。
60. The person was ‘‘available.’’
61. I didn’t want to ‘‘lose’’ the person。
62. I thought it would help ‘‘trap’’ a new partner。
63. I wanted to make someone else jealous。
64. I felt sorry for the person。
65. I wanted to feel powerful。
66. I wanted to ‘‘possess’’ the person。
67. I wanted to release tension。
68. I wanted to feel good about myself。
69. I was slumming。
70. I felt rebellious。
71. I wanted to intensify my relationship。
72. It seemed like the natural next step。
73. I wanted to be nice。
74. I wanted to feel connected to the person。
75. I wanted to feel young。
76. I wanted to manipulate him/her into doing something for me。
77. I wanted him/her to stop bugging me about sex。
78. I wanted to hurt/humiliate the person。
79. I wanted the person to feel good about themselves。
80. I didn’t want to disappoint the person。
81. I was trying to ‘‘get over’’ an earlier person/relationship。
82. I wanted to reaffirm my sexual orientation。
83. I wanted to try out new sexual techniques or positions。
84. I felt guilty。
85. My hormones were out of control。
86. It was the only way my partner would spend time with me。
87. It became a habit。
88. I wanted to keep my partner happy。
89. I had no self-control。
90. I wanted to communicate at a deeper level。
91. I was afraid my partner would have an affair if I didn’t have sex with him/her。
92. I was curious about my sexual abilities。
93. I wanted a ‘‘spiritual’’ experience。
94. It was just part of the relationship ‘‘routine’’。
95. I wanted to lose my inhibitions。
96. I got ‘‘carried away.’’
97. I needed another ‘‘notch on my belt.’’
98. The person demanded that I have sex with him/her。
99. The opportunity presented itself。
100. I wanted to see what it would be like to have sex while stoned “(e.g.,” on marijuana or some other drug)。
101. It’s considered ‘‘taboo’’ by society。
102. I wanted to increase the number of sex partners I had experienced。
103. The person was too ‘‘hot’’ (sexy) to resist。
104. I thought it would relax me。
105. I thought it would make me feel healthy。
106. I wanted to experiment with new experiences。
107. I wanted to see what it would be like to have sex with another person。
108. I thought it would help me to fall asleep。
109. I could brag to other people about my sexual experience。
110. It would allow me to ‘‘get sex out of my system’’ so that I could focus on other things。
111. I wanted to decrease my partner’s desire to have sex with someone else。
112. It would damage my reputation if I said ‘‘no.’’
113. The person was too physically attractive to resist。
114. I wanted to celebrate something。
115. I was seduced。
116. I wanted to make the person feel better about themselves。
117. I wanted to increase the emotional bond by having sex。
118. I wanted to see whether sex with a different partner would feel different or better。
119. I was mad at my “partner,” so I had sex with someone else。
120. I wanted to fulfill a previous promise to my partner。
121. It was expected of me。
122. I wanted to keep my partner from straying。
123. I wanted the pure pleasure。
124. I wanted to dominate the other person。
125. I wanted to make a conquest。
126. I’m addicted to sex。
127. It was a favor to someone。
128. I wanted to be used or degraded。
129. Someone offered me money to do it。
130. I was drunk。
131. It seemed like good exercise。
132. I was pressured into doing it。
133. The person offered to give me drugs for doing it。
134. I was frustrated and needed relief。
135. It was a romantic setting。
136. I felt insecure。
137. My regular partner is “boring,” so I had sex with someone else。
138. I was on the ‘‘rebound’’ from another relationship。
139. I wanted to boost my self-esteem。
140. I wanted to get my partner to stay with me。
141. Because of a bet。
142. It was a special occasion。
143. I wanted to get a special favor from someone。
144. I wanted to get back at my partner for having cheated on me。
145. I wanted to enhance my reputation。
146. I wanted to keep warm。
147. I wanted to punish myself。
148. I wanted to break up a rival’s relationship by having sex with his/her partner。
149. I wanted to stop my partners’ nagging。
150. I wanted to impress friends。
151. I wanted to achieve an orgasm。
152. I wanted to brag to my friends about my conquests。
153. I wanted to improve my sexual skills。
154. I wanted to get a job。
155. I wanted to get a raise。
156. I wanted to get a promotion。
157. I wanted to satisfy a compulsion。
158. I wanted to make money。
159. I wanted to keep my partner satisfied。
160. I wanted to change the topic of conversation。
161. I wanted to get out of doing something。
162. I wanted to test my compatibility with a new partner。
163. I wanted to get a partner to express love。
164. I wanted to put the passion back into my relationship。
165. I wanted to prevent a breakup。
166. I wanted to become one with another person。
167. I wanted to get a favor from someone。
168. I wanted to breakup my relationship。
169. I wanted to give someone else a sexually transmitted disease “(e.g.,” “herpes,” AIDS)。
170. I wanted to breakup another’s relationship。
171. I wanted to avoid hurting someone’s feelings。
172. I wanted to make myself feel better about myself。
173. I wanted to get rid of a headache。
174. I was afraid to say ‘‘no’’ due to the possibility of physical harm。
175. I wanted to keep my partner from straying。
176. I wanted to burn calories。
177. I wanted to even the score with a cheating partner。
178. I wanted to hurt an enemy。
179. I wanted to feel older。
180. I wanted to raise my self-esteem。
181. It was an initiation rite to a club or organization。
182. I wanted to become more focused on work – sexual thoughts are distracting。
183. I wanted to say ‘‘I’ve missed you.’’
184. I wanted to celebrate a birthday or anniversary or special occasion。
185. I wanted to say ‘‘I’m sorry.’’
186. I wanted to return a favor。
187. I wanted to say ‘‘Thank you.’’
188. I wanted to welcome someone home。
189. I wanted to say ‘‘goodbye.’’
190. I wanted to defy my parents。
191. I wanted to relieve menstrual cramps。
192. I wanted to relieve ‘‘blue balls.’’
193. I wanted to get the most out of life。
194. I wanted to feel feminine。
195. I wanted to feel masculine。
196. I am a sex addict。
197. I wanted to see what all the fuss is about。
198. I thought it would boost my social status。
199. The person had a lot of money。
200. The person’s physical appearance turned me on。
201. The person was a good dancer。
202. Someone had told me that this person was good in bed。
203. The person had beautiful eyes。
204. The person made me feel sexy。
205. An erotic movie had turned me on。
206. The person had taken me out for an expensive dinner。
207. The person was a good kisser。
208. The person had bought me jewelry。
209. The person had a great sense of humor。
210. The person seemed self-confident。
211. The person really desired me。
212. The person was really desired by others。
213. I wanted to gain access to that person’s friend。
214. I felt jealous。
215. The person flattered me。
216. I wanted to see if I could get the other person into bed。
217. The person had a desirable body。
218. I had not had sex in a long time。
219. The person smelled nice。
220. The person had an attractive face。
221. I saw the person naked and could not resist。
222. I was turned on by the sexual conversation。
223. The person was intelligent。
224. The person caressed me。
225. The person wore revealing clothes。
226. The person had too much to drink and I was able to take advantage of them。
227. I knew the person was usually ‘‘out of my league.’’
228. The person was mysterious。
229. I realized I was in love。
230. I wanted to forget about my problems。
231. I wanted to reproduce。
232. I wanted to feel loved。
233. I wanted my partner to notice me。
234. I wanted to help my partner forget about their problems。
235. I wanted to lift my partner’s spirits。
236. I wanted to submit to my partner。
237. I wanted to make my partner feel powerful。
我并不知道谁最先提出这个问题(虽然你的确需要个原因！)，不过下面是人们做爱的237个原因的完整名单。
1. 我那时候“意乱情迷”。
2. 就那么发生了。
3. 我很无聊。
4. 看起来是件“需要去做”的事。
5. 有人向我挑衅。
6. 我希望情感上的接近，换句话说，“亲密感”。
7. 我想更接近上帝。
8. 我希望让朋友们接受我。
9. 这很“刺激”，是种冒险。
10. 在吵架之后，我想和好
11. 我想摆脱激进的感觉。
12. 我受到了毒品的影响。
13. 我想有些能和朋友聊的事情。
14. 我想向这个人表达我的爱。
15. 我想得到肉体快感。
16. 我想向这个人表达我的好感。
17. 我觉得是我欠了这个人的。
18. 我被这个人吸引。
19. 我产生了性兴奋，想解决掉这种需求。
20. 我朋友们都已经有过了，我想迎合他们。
21. 那个感觉很好。
22. 我的伴侣一直要求。
23. 那是个名人，我希望能跟别人说我和他/她有过一腿。
24. 我受到的身体上的强迫。
25. 我受到了言语上的威胁。
26. 我希望这个人爱我。
27. 我想生个小孩。
28. 我想别人嫉妒。
29. 我想比朋友们有更多性经验。
30. 我结婚了，这是你该做的。
31. 当处男/女当烦了了。
32. 我“欲火中烧”。
33. 我希望感觉被爱。
34. 我觉得很寂寞。
35. 其他人都这么做。
36. 我希望引起注意。
37. “一直做完”比停下来容易。
38. 我希望确定这段关系是“有承诺”的。
39. 我在和别人竞赛，谁能“得到这个人”。
40. 我希望能主导这个人。
41. 我对人们在床上会怎么样很好奇。
42. 我对性很好奇。
43. 我想觉得自己有吸引力。
44. 我想取悦伴侣。
45. 我想表示顺从。
46. 我想缓解焦虑/压力。
47. 我不知道怎么说“不”。
48. 我觉得这是我的责任。
49. 我想结束这段关系。
50. 我的朋友向我施压。
51. 我想要这种冒险/刺激
52. 我想要这段经历。
53. 我觉得有义务这么做。
54. 很有意思。
55. 我想和某人扯平(就是报复)。
56. 我想受欢迎。
57. 这能让我得到礼物。
58. 我想实现一个幻想。
59. 我有段时间没做了。
60. 这个人正好“空窗”。
61. 我不想“失去”这个人。
62. 我觉得这可能对“套住”一个新伴侣有用。
63. 我想让别人嫉妒。
64. 我觉得对不起这个人。
65. 我希望自己觉得有力量。
66. 我想“拥有”这个人。
67. 我想放松。
68. 我想对自己感觉更好。
69. 我很淫荡。
70. 我感觉叛逆。
71. 我想加深关系。
72. 这看起来是很自然的一步。
73. 我想表现得好。
74. 我希望感觉和对方有交集。
75. 我希望感觉年轻。
76. 我想操控他/她，让他/她为我做些事。
77. 我想让他/她别再缠着我上床。
78. 我想伤害/羞辱这个人。
79. 我想让这个人对自己感觉很好。
80. 我不想让这个人失望。
81. 我试着去结束之前的人/关系。
82. 我想重新确认我的性向。
83. 我想试试新的性技巧或者姿势。
84. 我觉得内疚。
85. 我的荷尔蒙不受控制了。
86. 这是让我的伴侣和我相处的唯一方式。
87. 成了习惯。
88. 想让伴侣高兴。
89. 缺乏自我控制。
90. 希望进行深层次的交流。
91. 如果我不和伴侣做爱，我担心他/她会有外遇。
92. 我对自己的性能力很好奇。
93. 我想体验一下“精神”经历。
94. 这只是关系里的一种“例行公事”。
95. 我希望不那么压抑。
96. 我需要“冲冲喜”。
97. 我要有个人“拴在我腰带上”。
98. 那个人坚持要求。
99. 机会就自己出现了。
100. 我想看看麻木的时候做爱是什么样子的(比方说吸了大麻或者其他毒品)。
101. 这被社会当做“禁忌”
102. 我想增加性伴侣的数量。
103. 那个人太辣了，拒绝不了。
104. 我认为那能让我放松。
105. 我认为那能让我觉得健康。
106. 我想尝试一些新的经历。
107. 我想看看，和其他人做爱会怎么样。
108. 我认为那能帮我入睡。
109. 我可以跟别人炫耀我的性经验。
110. 这可以让我把性从我的系统中“剥离”，这样我就能集中注意其他事情了。
111. 我想降低我伴侣想和其他人做爱的欲望。
112. 如果我拒绝，会有损我的名声。
113. 这个人的身体太有吸引力了，难以抗拒。
114. 我想庆祝一些事情。
115. 我被勾引了。
116. 我希望让对方对自己感觉更好。
117. 我希望通过做爱增强情感纽带。
118. 我想知道和不同的人做爱是不是会感觉不同，或者更好。
119. 我对“伴侣”很生气，所以和别人做爱。
120. 我希望实践对伴侣的承诺。
121. 这是对我的期望。
122. 为了不让伴侣犹豫不决。
123. 我想要单纯的快感。
124. 我想统治别人。
125. 我想提出要求。
126. 我对性上瘾。
127. 这是帮别人的忙。
128. 我希望半占有、溶解。
129. 对方给钱。
130. 我喝醉了。
131. 这看起来是个不错的体验。
132. 对方给我压力，让我这么做。
133. 对方说给我毒品。
134. 我很沮丧，需要释放。
135. 气氛很浪漫。
136. 我感觉不安全。
137. 我长期的伴侣很“无聊”，所以我和别人做爱。
138. 我希望从另一端关系中“脱离”。
139. 我希望提升自信。
140. 让伴侣和我在一起。
141. 因为打赌。
142. 是个特殊场合。
143. 我希望对某个人做件特殊的事情。
144. 我想对出轨的伴侣报复。
145. 我想提升我的名声。
146. 为了暖和。
147. 我想惩罚自己。
148. 我想破坏竞争对手的关系，所以和他/她的伴侣上床。
149. 想阻止伴侣唠叨。
150. 想给朋友留下印象。
151. 想达到高潮。
152. 我想向朋友炫耀我征服了一个人。
153. 我想提高性技巧。
154. 想得到一份工作。
155. 想得到加薪。
156. 想得到提升。
157. 想去满足一种自己的强迫想法。
158. 想赚些钱。
159. 想让伴侣满足。
160. 想变更话题。
161. 从要做的事情中摆脱。
162. 想试试和新伴侣兼容性。
163. 想让对方表达爱。
164. 想让关系中重新有激情。
165. 防止分手。
166. 我想通过做爱成为另一个人。
167. 想从别人那里得到好处。
168. 想分手。
169. 想让别人的性病。
170. 想让别人分手。
171. 不想伤害别人的感情。
172. 想对自己感觉更好些。
173. 缓解头痛。
174. 我担心拒绝会导致身体伤害。
175. 不让伴侣犹豫不决。
176. 消耗卡洛里。
177. 我想报复不忠的伴侣。
178. 想伤害敌人。
179. 感觉长大了。
180. 提升自信。
181. 这是进入一个俱乐部或组织的必要方法。
182. 我想更专心工作——和性有关的想法太分心了。
183. 我想说：“我很想念你。”
184. 我想庆祝生日、纪念日或其他特殊日子。
185. 我想说：“我很抱歉”。
186. 我想说：“谢谢。”
187. 我想还个人情。
188. 欢迎某人回家。
189. 我想说再见。
190. 我想激怒父母。
191. 我想缓解经痛。
192. 缓解前列前充血。
193. 我想让生命精彩。
194. 我想感觉自己很有女人味。
195. 我想感觉自己很有男人味。
196. 我对性上瘾。
197. 我想看看有什么大惊小怪的。
198. 我认为这会提升我的社会地位。
199. 那个人很有钱。
200. 那个人的样子让我兴奋。
201. 那个人跳舞很好。
202. 有人跟我说这个人在床上很厉害。
203. 那个人有双漂亮的眼睛。
204. 这个人让我觉得自己很性感。
205. 色情片让我很兴奋。
206. 这个人带我吃了顿很贵的晚餐。
207. 他/她是个接吻好手。
208. 这个人给我买了首饰。
209. 这个人很有幽默感。
210. 他/她看起来很自信。
211. 这个人真的很想要我。
212. 别的人很想要他/她。
213. 我想接近这个人的朋友。
214. 我觉得嫉妒。
215. 他/她跟我调情。
216. 我就想看看自己能不能让别人和我上床。
217. 他/她的身体很诱人。
218. 我很长时间没做了。
219. 那人闻起来很好。
220. 他/她有张迷人的脸。
221. 我看到他/她裸体，不能抗拒。
222. 我被有关性的对话弄兴奋了。
223. 那人很聪明。
224. 那个人爱抚了我。
225. 那人穿了件很挑逗的衣服。
226. 他/她喝了太多的酒，我有机会占便宜。
227. 我知道一般来说，对于我来说，那个人可望不可即。
228. 那人很神秘。
229. 我发现自己爱恋了。
230. 我想忘记自己的问题。
231. 想生小孩。
232. 我想感觉被爱。
233. 想让对方注意到我。
234. 让对方忘掉他的问题。
235. 让对方精神起来。
236. 我想把自己交给他/她。
237. 想让伴侣感觉有力量。
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