亲情，就是不断给予和被原谅的过程

“喊子女去给长辈拜年”，这是对长辈的一份孝顺（即使不是亲自道歉），也是给兄弟姐妹一种缓冲。很多老太太老爷子不说什么，其实都看在眼里，心头甜滋滋的。毕竟，在意你怎么拜年的，还是讲究情分的人啊。

暖心的细节，总是藏在这些“小动作”里。一杯热茶、几句家常，没有伟大的言语，却有融化坚冰的力量。大多数家庭，吵着吵着就和好了，因为舍不得让白发生气，因为亲情早已根植心底。

我见过太多中年人悄悄给彼此“找台阶下”。不好意思直接开口，就让晚辈替自己传递一点善意。或者逢年过节凑个局，大家热热闹闹聚一块，饭桌上一杯推一杯，说不清谁请谁，倒是把误会都洒进酒里去了。

“世上只有兄弟姐妹好”，这不是童话，而是日子久了的真理。我们都不是圣人，可爱的总比恨的多。谁家没有磕碰？谁的心里没有阴影？可年年岁岁的团聚，最终拼出来的还是“家”的轮廓。

鲁迅说，“无论做什么事，只要肯努力，是没有不成功的。”家也是这样，哪怕有过裂痕，但肯走一步，肯付出点柔软，就能慢慢修复成原来的样子。兄弟姐妹之间，能从喊孩子拜年开始，就是友好的信号灯在亮。余生很长，我们总要学会和解。http://m.blszhdj.cn/mnews/22505.shtml
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很多读者可能和我一样，压根不愿兄弟姐妹真的老死不相往来。毕竟，等到父母老去，山河依旧，好多人都明白“树欲静而风不止，子欲养而亲不待”的无力。哪怕留点台阶给自己，也算是对过往时光的和解。