一、世界上，没有挤不出的时间，只有不想赴的约，每一个选择，其实都是内心所向。
In the world, there is no time to squeeze out, only an appointment that you don't want to go to. Every choice is actually your heart's desire.
二、你怎么能在拥有爱情的同时又拒绝受伤呢？别忘了，丘比特射出的是箭，而不是玫瑰。
How can you refuse to be hurt while you have love? Don't forget that Cupid shoots arrows, not roses.
三、人生本来就没有相欠，别人对你付出，是因为别人喜欢，你对别人付出，是因为你自己甘愿。情出甘愿，事过无悔。
Life is not owed, others pay for you, because others like you, you pay for others, because you are willing to. Willingness makes no regrets.
四、世间所有不尽人意之事，全靠硬扛。接受成长，也接受所有的不欢而散。
All the unsatisfactory things in the world depend on hard work. Accept growth, but also accept all the unhappy break up.
五、你要储蓄你的可爱，眷顾你的善良，变得勇敢，当这个世界越来越坏时，只希望你能越来越好。
You have to save your loveliness, care for your kindness, become brave, when the world is getting worse and worse, just hope you can get better and better.
六、清晨的粥比深夜的酒好喝，骗你的人比爱你的人会说，所以不要用耳朵恋爱，真正对你好的全是细节。
The porridge in the morning is better than the wine in the night. The person who deceives you will say that the person who loves you is better than the person who loves you. So don't fall in love with your ears. All the details are really good for you.
七、懂事的人一旦不配合就会被说没良心，任性的人稍微乖巧一回就被夸个不停。
Once a sensible person does not cooperate, he will be said to have no conscience, and a wayward person will be praised once he is slightly clever.
八、学会一个人生活，不论身边是否有人疼爱，做好自己该做的，有爱或无爱，都安然对待。
Learn to live alone, no matter whether there is someone around you who loves you or not, do what you should do, love or no love, and treat it safely.
九、人是无法做到换位思考的，因为思想、经历、感官、全都不一样，就像我说大海很漂亮，你却说淹死过很多人。
It is impossible for people to think transpositionally, because thoughts, experiences, senses and everything are different. Just like I said the sea is beautiful, you said that many people drowned.
十、人性就是这样，自卑才炫耀，缺爱才花心。招摇，除了证明你心虚，说明不了任何东西！
Human nature is like this, inferiority is to show off, lack of love is to spend heart. Swaggering, in addition to proving your guilt, can not explain anything!
十一、善良要有底线，大方要有原则。不分青红皂白，只知道对人好，那会辜负自己的一片好心。
Kindness needs a bottom line and generosity needs principles. Be indiscriminate, only know to be good to others, that will disappoint one's own good intentions.
十二、不要向任何人诉苦，因为20％的人不关心，剩下的80％听了会很高兴。摆正心态，温柔自相随，人生就是哭给自己听，笑给别人看！
Don't complain to anyone, because 20% of people don't care, the remaining 80% will be happy to hear. Put your mind right, gentle and self-accompanying, life is to cry for yourself, laugh for others to see!
十三、我们要有最朴素的生活，与最遥远的梦想。即使明日天寒地冻，路远马亡。
We need the simplest life and the farthest dreams. Even if it freezes tomorrow, the horse will die far away.
十四、在这个滥情的年代，一声“亲爱的”充其量也就是个你好，一句“下次请你吃饭”顶多算个谢谢，何必太认真。
In this age of indiscriminate love, a “dear” is at best a hello, a “invite you to dinner next time” is at most a thank you, why too serious.
十五、多要求自己，你会更加独立，少要求别人，你会减少失望。宁愿花时间去修炼不完美的自己，也不要浪费时间去期待完美的别人。
If you ask more of yourself, you will be more independent and less of others, and you will be less disappointed. Rather than waste time expecting perfect people, I would like to spend time cultivating my imperfect self.
十六、世人贪婪，总想寻找两全，但这世间难有什么两全之策。人生百年，不过是教人如何取舍。
The world is greedy and always wants to find two ways, but there is no way to achieve two ways in the world. Life is a hundred years, but teaching people how to choose.
十七、做过一次手术，就知道喝药根本算不上苦，狠狠摔倒过，就知道擦破皮不值得哭，被背叛过，就知道吵两句嘴不伤真感情。
After an operation, you know that drinking medicine is not bitter at all. If you fall hard, you will know that scraping skin is not worth crying. If you have been betrayed, you will know that bickering does not hurt your true feelings.
十八、如果我用你待我的方式来待你，恐怕你早已离去。所以说，不管亲情，友情，还是爱情，凡事换个角度，假如你是我，你未必有我大度！
If I treat you the way you treat me, I'm afraid you've already left. So, no matter family, friendship or love, if you are me, you may not be as generous as me.
十九、很多人不是孤僻，而是有原则有选择地社交。和喜欢的人千言万语，和其他的人一字不提。
Many people are not isolated, but socialize in a principled and selective way. Talk to thousands of people you like, and never say a word to anyone else.
二十、我们谁也没办法，活成人人都满意的样子，很多事情就跟吃饭一样，六七分饱就够了，别死撑。
We can't help it. Everyone is satisfied with the way they live. Many things are just like eating. Six or seven cents is enough. Don't die.
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