离婚4年，朱小伟脱胎换骨，看似“精明”的陈亚男，却活成了这样

文|南风

编辑|先锋谷影视娱评

2020年，一场轰动全网的婚礼让陈亚男和朱小伟的名字紧紧绑在了一起。

一个聪明伶俐、野心勃勃，另一个憨厚老实，靠爹吃饭。

当时谁也没有想到，这段看似幸福美满的婚姻，仅仅维持了一年不到就宣告破裂。

而分开后的两人，走向了两个截然不同的方向。

曾经风光无限的网红，一步步跌落神坛，成为别人口中的“笑话”；

曾经被嘲“烂泥扶不上墙”的“星二代”，却过上了幸福安稳的生活。

他们的故事，或许比我们想象中更加耐人寻味。

陈亚男和朱小伟的婚姻，其实一开始就充满了争议。

农村人总是希望子孙辈能够早点结婚生子，所以在2020年的时候，大衣哥朱之文就着急忙慌地为儿子朱小伟找对象。

尽管大衣哥已经很少再出现在央视的舞台上了，但他的名气还是在的。

尤其是在山东菏泽的一个小县城，大衣哥家妥妥的就是“鹤立鸡群”的存在。

不过有其父不一定有其子，朱小伟并没有继承父亲的艺术细胞，也没有学到父亲吃苦耐劳的精神。

想想也正常，老爸都是家喻户晓的大明星了，自己好像也没有必要努力。

家世都已经摆在这里，甚至上不上学都已经无所谓。

事实也正是这样，当朱小伟相亲的消息传开之后，人群就踏破了朱家的大门，各路亲戚朋友争着抢着要把女儿送到朱家。

朱小伟和陈亚男就是在这样的情况下认识的。

尽管陈亚男的学历也不算高，但胜在人长得漂亮，头脑灵活，还能说会道。

两人结婚时，朱之文大手一挥，直接给出了两套房外加16万的彩礼，还有一堆其他东西。

结婚的场面更是隆重，十里八乡的父老乡亲全都过来冲喜，俨然异常乡村版的“豪门盛宴”。

也没错，朱家在当地可不就是妥妥的豪门嘛！

不过也正因为如此，很多人都猜测陈亚男其实是为了朱家的钱才嫁给朱小伟的。

对于这种猜测，陈亚男一口否定，还说因为朱小伟没有到法定结婚年龄，两个人连结婚证都没有领。

换句话说，他们能走到一起，靠的全都是爱。

明明朱小伟才是那只“金凤凰”，可婚后陈亚男成了主角，朱小伟默默当起了配角。

“不图朱家”的陈亚男立刻就注册了直播账号，开始做起了网红。

她把朱之文和朱小伟都拉到了直播间吸引人气，效果十分明显。

短短几天时间，她的账号粉丝量就暴增数百万，送礼物的人更是接连不断。

她跟直播间的网友们聊天，感谢粉丝送的礼物，显得十分熟练。

而朱小伟就坐在她身边，只是重复着老婆的话，看起来非常不自在。

这其实他俩状态的差别，一方面彰显了陈亚男的野心，另一方面也说明朱小伟真的是一个什么都不会的啃老族。

一个锋芒毕露，一个唯唯诺诺，如果没有一方的妥协顺从，那这段婚姻必然要出问题。

果然，随着时间的推移，陈亚男直播间的流量逐渐稳定下来之后，她开始哭诉婚后的生活很无奈。

在她口中，朱小伟是一个不学无术、不思进取、没有事业心的男人。

她得不到想要的生活，感受不到安全感，也感受不到幸福，很多话都是对丈夫的抱怨。

有人问她为什么结婚这么久都不怀孕，她回答：“哪个女人结婚后不想要个孩子啊？”

话里话外好像在暗示说问题出在朱小伟身上。

此话一出很多网友就开始同情陈亚男，开始控诉朱小伟耽搁了人家。

但是也有消息透露，说结婚后的一年时间里，朱小伟和陈亚男根本就没有圆房。

说是夫妻，也睡在一张床上，可俩人各盖各的被子，床中间还放着一个桌子，上边搁一杯水。

就这种情况，想想也不可能有孩子。

陈亚男和朱小伟的事情一点点闹得沸沸扬扬，满城皆知，谣言也跟着满天飞。

有说陈亚男被绑架了的，又说绑架子虚乌有，那其实是她跟榜一大哥游山玩水去了。

还有说她的车子被远程定位，她差点被人掳走等等，真真假假，分不清楚。

但是能看到的是，她最终选择和朱小伟离婚，结束了这一段鸡飞狗跳的婚姻。

陈亚男自述

“这其实都是陈亚男下的一盘大棋，她从嫁入朱家开始，就已经计划好了此后的一切。”这便是人们对陈亚男的猜测。

从成为网红，到拉朱家人站台，再到直播带货，最后想方设法从朱家脱身，这全都是她提前想好的了。

听起来却是像是那么回事，但如果一个女子能做到这种程度，她恐怕也不需要依附朱家了。

为了证明自己的清白，陈亚男退还了所有的彩礼，还晒出了收入的明细单。

她说自己能有今天的成就，完全就是靠自己的努力。

她的努力自然有目共睹，但是放眼望去，网络上有太多比她还要努力却依旧默默无闻的人，如果没有朱家的庇佑，她也不可能走到今天。

事实也证明了这一点。

离婚后的陈亚男，直播间多次被网友举报到关闭，人气也直线下降，没多久就完全失去了竞争力。

后来陈亚男带着妈妈到大衣哥的宅子里登门道歉，但却被晾在了一边。

她们母女俩在客厅里边等着朱家人过来，可大衣哥在后院里招待其他人，朱小伟则在假山旁边忙着拍照，谁也没有搭理她们。

晾了一阵子以后，双方也算是见上面了，可两家人却吵了起来，大衣哥还说着什么“咱不做道德败坏的事”。

或许曾经的那些关于陈亚男的传闻并非全都是空穴来风。

再之后，陈亚男就逐渐从互联网上销声匿迹了，网红梦彻底破灭。

反观朱小伟，在离婚之后迅速找到了新的老婆陈萌，还是个老师。

这次的婚礼十分低调，一方面是因为二婚，另一方面也是因为吃了前边的一次亏，长了记性。

据说朱小伟还一改往日的颓废模样，出门找了份工作，不管待遇如何，也算是结束了长期的啃老生活。

婚后小两口生了个孩子，没有什么波澜，也再没有了勾心斗角，有的只是平平淡淡的幸福。

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网友纷纷感叹：果然，男人成不成熟，全看娶了谁。

如今，朱小伟一家人其乐融融，陈亚男则在争议中艰难前行。

当算计盖过真诚，信任崩塌也只是时间问题。

朱小伟的幸福，恰恰证明了：真正的幸福生活，靠的不是机关算尽，而是以诚待人。