九言 | 百事从心起，一笑解千愁，心态好，一切都会好。

所谓得体，就是有些话不必说尽，有些事不必做尽。

The so-called appropriateness means that some words do not need to be said completely, and some things do not need to be done completely.

总有一天你会明白：答非所问就是回答，敬而远之就是不喜欢，沉默不语就是拒绝。

One day you will understand: if you don't answer the question, it means you answer; if you stay away, it means you don't like it; if you remain silent, it means you refuse.

百事从心起，一笑解千愁，心态好，一切都会好。

Pepsi starts from the heart, a smile relieves a thousand worries, a good mentality, everything will be good.

命运要你成长的时候 ，总会安排一些让你不顺心的人或事刺激你，这是规律。

When fate wants you to grow, it will always arrange some people or things that make you unhappy to stimulate you, this is the law.

生活短暂，没时间去忧虑别人怎么说或怎么想你。所以开心过自己的，让别人说去吧。

Life is short, there is no time to worry about what others say or think of you. So be happy with yourself and let others say it.

你不扬帆，没人替你起航；你不努力，谁也给不了你想要的生活。

If you don't set sail, no one will set sail for you; If you don't work hard, no one can give you the life you want.

不能在烂人烂事上纠缠，只会造成双重伤害。

Don't dwell on bad people and bad things, it will only cause double harm.

每当我拿不定主意的时候，我就立刻问自己的心，如果我于心无愧，也就处之泰然了。

Whenever I can't make up my mind, I immediately ask my heart. If I have a clear conscience, I can handle it calmly.

所有随风而逝的都是属于昨天的，所有历经风雨留下来的才是面向未来的。

All that has passed with the wind belongs to yesterday, and all that has gone through storms and hardships is what faces the future.